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New Kid on the Block |
it is a real problem when it happens to families .it has mine both drugs and drinking.it's made me leave the person i love very much.if he knew how much damage that stuff does to people he would stop.but he is the only one that can make that happen.
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Familiar Face |
What are we supposed to say to that Pam?
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New Kid on the Block |
all i am saying is that addiction tears families apart and so does the abuse behind it. wither it's physical or mental.cause when there high or drunk they are not them selves and don't know what they are doing or saying!!!!!
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Familiar Face |
I agree with you but I was just asking if you were trying to make a point and wanted any responses. It's hard to understand your english too. You misspell about everything you type. |
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Hall of Famer |
Please don't bash on anyone's spelling unless yours is perfect. In your case the word "everything" is used incorrectly. The proper would be "every thing" in this case. everything, means the entire situation, as a whole: ‘Everything in the house was destroyed’. every thing, means each item in a given situation: ‘Every thing in her wardrobe was destroyed’. If you are going to start correcting others, then get ready to be corrected. Be perfect or be silent, it is your choice. Pam, feel free to post your opinions on addiction, typos and all. I know it is a horrible situation both for the addict and their loved ones. Has the person that you are referring to reached out for help, yet? |
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New Kid on the Block |
don't know haven't heard from him in a month.is name is Jabo and he is my husband and our son father.we left him about a 14 months ago because of the drinking and drug use.he use to call me on a friends cell phone but that as been a while ago.see we live in Texas and he suppose to live in Sheffield or the muscle shoals area.we love him very much and miss him,all i want is for him to get help so we can be a family again.
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Familiar Face |
Hey easy there partner and grammar expert. I never said anything about perfection. I was asking about what she was getting at. The subject had a title of: Addcition. Then she wrote: it is a real problem when it happens to families .it has mine both drugs and drinking.it's made me leave the person i love very much.if he knew how much damage that stuff does to people he would stop.but he is the only one that can make that happen. So I think I had a right to ask what she was talking about. Go grab a drink or something and chill out. |
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Hall of Famer |
Hang in there. When he is ready to get help, he will. Hopefully he will contact you and your son and let you know he is ok. I'll pray for you. |
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Hall of Famer |
Then you wnet on to say > "It's hard to understand your english too. You misspell about everything you type " Why did you have to say that ? You go grab a drink or something and think of how rude you can be !!! And TSC I love that you got him .lol Made him mad . lol |
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Small Talker |
Glad you posted. I know so many families that have been torn apart by drugs and alcohol. And they don't even realize what pain they are causing the loved ones in their lives. Hopefully your husband will see this and realize why you are no longer with him.
My brother in law has lost his wife, home, daughter and the life he knew all because of drugs. I've tried to help but you can't help someone who doesn't want it. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you. |
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After attempts to help/support them,walk away it's up to them.It will destroy you too if you don't.
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New Kid on the Block |
Addcition is very hard on everyone involved. i have a brother who has been and off drugs for years. We had to give it all to God and just pray for him.
He [brother] is the one and only one who can change. I believe God helps those who help themselves.  |
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New Kid on the Block |
Really, addiction to drugs is bad when you have many responsibilities.Once I had also addicted to drugs . My friend helped me to come to my real life. Now I am in happy with my family.
........ Nisha Social Media Marketing - 1108865744.00573 http://www.widecircles.com |
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New Kid on the Block |
it is normal i think, problem and other bad situation is normal situation when it comes to family, all you need to do is the understanding that brought family back together.
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Small Talker |
Addiction is a sad thing. Weather it be drugs, alcohol, sex, shopping, food...ect ect. The only way someone can overcome this is to first admit they have a problem. They have to want to change. Then go seek help. Sometimes you have to change your "playgrounds and playmates". Meaning if you want to change you have to stay away from the places or people that would cause you to indulge in your addiction.
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